Tools & Tips from Michael Becker

The Custody Solutions Sourcebook

One book in my office lending library which seems to be very helpful to clients is The Custody Solutions Sourcebook by Jann Blackstone-Ford. I recommend it for all family practitioners, whether lawyers, therapists, or others, to have for clients.

This thoughtful book helps divorcing spouses to identify and create a parenting plan most suited for their family. The author also offers useful advice on how parents can maintain a united parenting front in spite of their divorce.

Other topics include whether and when to consider family counseling, as well as a very useful section on working with lawyers and mediators, including how to find a mediator.

I also like the author’s take on how and when to incorporate new partners, and parenting solutions for same-sex couples (though somewhat dated, still useful).

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