Articles from The Mediator
Spending Limits Help Couples?
Couples that agree on spending limits have less conflict about money.
Read More Legal Documents for College
Critical legal documents parents should have in place for college students.
Read More Tax Stuff: A New Use for 529s
Owners of overfunded 529 college savings accounts can roll some of the funds to a Roth IRA tax free.
Read More Going Up: 401(k) Limits
IRS has raised contribution limits for most retirement plans for 2023.
Read More Joint Finances = Happier Couples?
Joining finances creates a feeling of greater financial security for couples.
Read More Trending Now: Who Gets the Dog
New York and other states have passed laws regarding custody of pets.
Read More New Divorce Court Procedures
Connecticut is changing divorce court procedures to try to move cases faster.
Read More Backdoor to Roth IRAs
Congress is considering limiting high earners ability to convert monies to Roth IRAs and Roth 401(k)s.
Read More Family Finances — Involve Teens?
Financial advisors disagree about involving teens and young adults in family financial decisions.
Read More Remarriage: Combine Finances or Not?
Remarrying couples must decide whether to combine their finances or keep them separate.
Read More Remote Workers May Get Tax Surprise
Remote workers may now owe additional tax to the state where they work remotely.
Read More Connecticut Now Allows Remote Divorce
Connecticut now allows divorcing couples to complete their divorces remotely, without going to court.
Read More Social Media Gives New Meaning to Emotional Contagion
Emotional Contagion, first published in 1994 has new relevance, given the rise of social media.
Read More New Uses for 529 Savings Accounts
Recent tax law changes have expanded the uses for 529 savings accounts.
Read More Millennials Causing Declining Divorce Rates
Millennials divorce at a much lower rate than their Baby Boomer parents, according to a recent study.
Read More Revised Court Orders in Divorce
Important rules concerning managing family finances during a divorce are about to become a bit more flexible.
Read More Tax Stuff: Alimony Deadline
An important law regarding the tax-deductibility of alimony payments is about to change at the end of 2018.
Read More Marriage Update: More Couples Live Apart
More married couples are living apart than ever before, thanks in part to technology which helps them to stay in touch while they are apart.
Read More Retirement Savings Update: More Flexibility, More Plans?
Regulators are considering enacting more flexible rules for retirement savings accounts like IRAs and 401(k)s.
Read More Retiring Early Using the Age 55 Rule
The IRS Code allows participants in 401(k) and 403(b) plans to get their money out before age 59-1/2 without the 10% penalty if they retire after age 55.
Read More Mediation Centers Open in Connecticut Courthouses
Connecticut has now opened mediation centers in two courthouses, which are available for mediation of family and civil cases from throughout the state.
Read More Speedier Divorces: Connecticut Allows Waiver of 90-Day Wait
Connecticut now allows divorcing couples who have an agreement on all terms of their divorce to waive the 90-day waiting period and get divorced sooner.
Read More Cost of the Ring and Wedding may Predict Divorce
Emory University researchers surveyed over 3,100 people who were or had been married, and found that spending more on the engagement ring/wedding cor-related with higher divorce rates.
Read More Social Security: Divorce Basics
If you are the spouse who made less money in the marriage and then get divorced, Social Security has a potential benefit for you.
Read More ‘Nonadversarial Divorce’ Arrives in Connecticut
A new Connecticut law allows certain couples to get divorced more quickly and without going to court. It’s called “nonadversarial divorce.”
Read More Retirement Savings: Rollover Changes
Did you know that you can take money out of an IRA tax free and use it for any purpose, so long as you put it back into an IRA within 60 days?
Read More Under Pressure: Women Better Decision-Makers
According to researchers at USC and Duke University, when the going gets tough, it seems women may be better at making decisions than are men.
Read More Alimony Modification in CT: Now Harder to Get Increases?
In a unanimous decision the Connecticut Supreme Court seems to have made it more difficult to get increases in alimony in certain circumstances.
Read More College Savings: Grandparents’ Trap?
Grandparents have figured out that 529s are a great way to help with their grandchildrens’ college costs. But this may cause problems for students receiving need-based financial aid.
Read More Going From Attraction to Flaw
It's no secret that opposites attract. But the at-first attractive ‘opposite’ trait can become a real problem over time.
Read More Serving Papers on Facebook
Can you serve papers via social media? A New York court has recently said ‘sometimes, yes’, allowing service of legal papers using Facebook.
Read More Tax Stuff: Home Office Simpler
The home office deduction can be very valuable for those whose principal place of business is their home — even if it isn’t their only place of business. But calculating the deduction hasn’t always been so easy. IRS has issued new rules simplifying how to do this. Previously, you had to track actual home expenses…
Read More A Successful Marriage: Do Credit Scores Matter?
It seems everyone wants to know how best to select a spouse or long-term partner so as to avoid a break-up down the road. New information suggests that credit scores can be a predictor of whether a relationship will survive. Two Federal Reserve economists have examined the individual credit scores of millions of couples. Their…
Read More Revised CT Financial Affidavit: What’s New
Financial Affidavits are sworn statements each spouse must provide regarding their finances. They are critical in any divorce. The old two-page Financial Affidavit form has been replaced with two alternate forms, a long and a short version. The long form (six pages), is used when income or net assets exceed $75,000. The short form (four…
Read More Managed 401(k) Plans
Most people really don’t know that much about picking among the myriad of funds offered by a typical 401(k) plan. Enter the managed plan.
Read More He Won’t Go: Couples Therapy With One Spouse
Can you do couples therapy when one spouse, usually the husband, refuses to participate? More and more, the answer seems ‘yes’.
Read More What I Would Do Differently: Advice From Divorcees
A 25-year study following 373 couples found that 46% have divorced. 210 of them were asked what they’d do differently. Five key points emerged.
Read More Good News on Taxes: 401(k) Limits Increase
The IRS is making it easier for most Americans to put away more money for retirement through their 401(k) plans by raising the contribution limits.
Read More Marriage Rates at Record Lows
The Pew Research Center recently reported that fewer people in the U.S. are getting married.
Read More Less Expensive Lawyering Here? Limited Scope Representation
The Connecticut Judicial Branch recently proposed rule changes to enable Connecticut lawyers to offer LSR, or ‘limited scope representation’ to their clients.
Read More Income Tax Headache: Another AMT Patch
More people now pay Alternative Minimum Tax (AMT), and many of them are hardly super-wealthy. This is because AMT is not indexed for inflation — so as income increases due to inflation, more people are ensnared by the AMT each year.
Read More Secret Spending in Marriages: More Common Than You’d Think
Money Magazine recently reported that almost 80% of married people hide some purchases from their spouses. And it’s the men who are more likely to do so!
Read More Conflicting Family Law Roles? Court Disqualifies Attorney
It was the client’s honest perception that a conflict was created which was ultimately persuasive to require disqualification.
Read More Unusual Tax Advice: Better to Pay Now?
The conventional wisdom is usually that if a tax is due, it is better to pay it later than sooner. But such advice is being stood on its head this year because of the possible expiration of the Bush-era tax cuts.
Read More CT Supreme Court on Higher Income Child Support
The Connecticut Supreme Court has ruled that the principles of the child support guidelines chart now apply to higher-income families.
Read More Later-in-Life Divorce Increases
So many people were surprised when Al and Tipper Gore divorced after 40 years of a seemingly ideal marriage. But recent evidence indicates that this is a growing trend.
Read More Your IRA: Convert to a Roth?
Most financial advisors agree that IRAs provide a great way to save for retirement. The IRS now allows you to convert your traditional IRA to a Roth, regardless of income.
Read More Two-Earner Couples: Road to a Happier Marriage?
The Pew Research Center recently reported that in one-third of marriages the wife now has more education than does the husband. And in 22% of marriages wives are now the primary breadwinners.
Read More CT Again Enforces Prenup
Asking for a prenup was once considered marriage poison. But not any more. Prenups are now more common, and many people use mediation to develop them.
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